My friend, the author Liza Palmer, died recently and I’ve been thinking about her a lot lately, as you might imagine. Liza was funny and warm and delightful and, as you’d expect from a writer, a whiz with words. She had so many phrases that snuck into my own parlance. One, “RIBS,” was a variation and expansion on our old friend, “It’s a text, not a tweet.” RIBS is an acronym for Run It By Somebody and applies to so much more than tweeting out something unhinged, although it also often applied in that scenario. About to drunkenly text your troublesome ex? RIBS it. Considering telling your boss to jump off a bridge? RIBS it. Thinking about painting your primary bathroom black? RIBS it!! One of the many times we used it in text was during a conversation about Justin Timberlake announcing he would be apologizing to “absolutely fucking nobody” before singing “Cry Me a River” shortly after Britney published her memoir. He abso…